Just now while in the car my mum asked in chinese," Hui Jie, you won't go and enter early relationships right?"

Me*wary : What you mean by early relationships? How old?

Mum: These days got a lot of people start dating at around 19 plus...you won't right? I think it's counted early leh

Me: HAR 19 GOT EARLY MEH??19 already UNI!!!!! Or POLY YEAR THREE! It's okay what. Aiya i also cannot guarantee that i won't date early mahhh~~

Mum: Why you so agitated? I never say you cannot:) (teasing)

Me: Aiya i then don't want later date late then marry late then i won't live to see my children grow up!!!(exagerrated)

Mum: 想这么远啊 (teasing)

Haha then we laughed. Don't want to marry late! Later when my children grow up i will be sixty plus seventy plus. No way man. I wanna be there with them! And do things with them.

Whatever i can't predict my future anyway. I just wanna marry someone i love and who loves me and who will not cheat on me and is not selfish.

My image of good men has been tarnished actually. Don't really think that there are a lot husbands who don't cheat on their wives. :( :( Hai. What a bad social phenomenon. :O But maybe a few years down the road it will be different. Ok maybe i am kidding myself.

Also, many teenagers scratch that, 90% of teenagers don't date with marriage in mind. That's my calculated statistic. According to HJ's Statistics . (I used to use HJ Statistics in my Chi Formal letter and the teacher even accepted it. But since that time the teacher said cannot anyhow make up statistics i decided not to do it already. HEH) It's really hard to date and with marriage in mind. Really. Especially for teenagers nowadays.

But it is sure that this generation of adults cannot be compared with our generation of future adults. It will be very different.

Hmmm.